Do you ever feel overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like you're constantly saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? You’re not alone. For years, I said yes to everything for fear of hurting others’ feelings. I kept going until I was completely burnt out, and that burnout led to anger and frustration. But once I learned how to set boundaries, I could still show up—on my terms—and protect my energy. 

If you cringe when seeing another article about physical health, you’re not alone. I get it—I’ve had a rocky relationship with weight, food, and sleep. I knew what I should be doing, but wasn’t doing it. Worse, I judged myself for not making changes, which only led to more frustration and inaction. Sound familiar? Then this blog is for you.

There is an old Buddhist saying made famous by Haruki Murakami that says, 

“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

How do you respond when life throws unexpected challenges your way? Do you find yourself easily overwhelmed, or do you bounce back with determination and grit? The ability to navigate setbacks and adversity is rooted in mental resilience—a skill that can be developed and strengthened.

How clear are you about your goals, emotions, and life direction? Do you ever feel like your thoughts are a tangled web, leaving you unsure of your next step? Do you feel like every day is Groundhog Day, and you aren’t sure how to get out of this never ending loop? Many of us go through life reacting to circumstances without truly understanding what drives us. When was the last time you took a moment to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and desires?

Every day, we are bombarded with potential stressors—election cycles, wars, inflation, climate change, and natural disasters all contribute to an overwhelming sense of anxiety. Add personal challenges with family or work, and it's remarkable that we manage to keep going.

Yet, how often do you downplay your stress? Maybe you’ve told yourself others have it worse, or perhaps, like me, you've developed a dependency on stress, finding comfort in the chaos. But what if there was a way to break free from this cycle and reclaim your peace?

When was the last time you found yourself in a conversation, completely misreading the other person's emotions? Maybe you thought they were upset with you, only to realize later that they were just having a bad day. We've all been there, and that's where emotional intelligence comes into play.